I know this pattern inside and out because I lived it for 40 years. By the time I hit 40, I'd failed in every relationship I'd been in. Not just failed—I'd walked away from an engagement and a planned wedding. I knew something was deeply wrong but I couldn't name it. I just knew I kept repeating the same loop and I was desperate to figure out why. It took me two more years to finally see what was actually happening. I was abandoning myself. Moving too fast. Saying whatever it took to be liked. Desperate for validation from women, from work, from anywhere outside of me. The real work wasn't learning new dating tactics. It was learning to fill my own cup. To be comfortable with myself. To live aligned with what I actually valued instead of what I thought would make me likable. To build confidence from the inside, not borrow it from someone else's approval. I learned to speak my truth—and discovered the power in that. How it transformed not just my love life, but my entire life. I realized I'm allowed to want what I want. That I can have whatever I desire. That inner freedom—knowing myself, knowing what I want, and living aligned with my vision every single day—changed everything. That's the journey I take men on. Most guys don't realize this is the problem yet. They're still in the loop, confused about why it keeps falling apart. I help them see what's actually happening and guide them toward that same inner freedom and power. You don't have to spend 40 years figuring this out. Let me show you the way through.